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孩子老是模仿大人接吻怎么办?

文章分类:两性健康   作者:www.4830.com   来源:中国网址大全   时间:2013-1-10 1:06:35   人气:305   分享到QQ空间   收藏到QQ书签   推荐给朋友

细心的家长有时会发现,有的孩子在交往中模仿成人拥抱亲吻。在对待这类问题时,家长应注意以下几点:

Attentive parents can sometimes be found, some children in the exchanges of mimicking adult hugs and kisses. In dealing with this kind of problems, parents should pay attention to the following points:
 
1、大多数孩子与异性伙伴拥抱亲吻,往往是一种纯模仿性的行为,他们用从大人那里学来的动作语言来表达这种天真的喜爱之情,实际上并不理解这种动作的真实含义,所以家长对此不必过于担忧。

1, most children with heterosexual partners hugged and kissed, is often a pure imitation behavior, they learned from the adults to the language to express such naive love, actually does not understand the true meaning of this action, so parents do not have to worry too much.
 
2、切不可把孩子之间的这种现象当作笑料宣传或采取无所谓的态度,这样会促使孩子模仿,以为这是成人赞同的,久而久之,这种行为得到强化,给孩子以后的心理发育带来不良的影响。
2, must not regard this phenomenon as a joke between child advocacy or take an indifferent attitude, it will make children imitating, that it is aligned in the course of time, adult, this behavior could be enhanced, to the child later mental development brought bad influence.
 
3、如果家长发现孩子这种行为后大打出手,大骂孩子“下流”,会在孩子在心灵中留下阴影:有的孩子由于逆反心理促使他更繁地模仿这种动作;有的孩子产生自卑感,从此不敢和异性伙伴游戏接触,导致日后人际交往的困难。

3, if the parents found their children this behavior after strike violently abuse children, "dirty", can be in the child in the hearts of the shadow: some children due to antagonistic psychology made him more frequently imitated this action; some children of inferiority, I don't dare ever and heterosexual partners play contact, leading to future interpersonal difficulties.
 
外国孩子童年时也常玩这种游戏,因为受到成人及整个社会的正确引导,长大后自然而然地将拥抱亲吻当成一种礼节,这就告诉我们正确有效的引导是非常必要的。

Foreign child childhood often play this game, because of the adult and the whole society is correct guide, after growing up, come very naturally to hug and kiss as a courtesy, which tell us the correct effective guidance is necessary.
 
1、对待越年幼的孩子越应注意:平时应尽量避免让孩子看到影视画刊中表示性爱的动作;夫妻间的一些亲昵行为,在孩子面前不宜过多过频,避免给孩子一种错觉,以为这是生活的主旋律。另外,到了适当年龄,孩子就应与父母分室而居。

In 1, with more young children more attention should be paid to: usually should be avoided to let your children see film illustrated that sex action; some of the intimacy between husband and wife, in front of the children should not be too frequently, avoid giving children an illusion, think this is the theme of life. In addition, the appropriate age, children should be with their parents living room.
 
2、对3-6岁的孩子进行适当的性教育,消除孩子对异性的神秘感。这类教育应着重于性别教育,可给孩子讲一些简单的生理卫生知识。

2, for children aged 3-6 for proper sex education, the elimination of child sexual mystique. This kind of education should focus on sex education, to tell the children some simple physiological hygiene knowledge.
 
3、成人在孩子的游戏中可适当加以引导,让他们玩更有趣的游戏,转移其注意力,从而逐渐减少玩这种模仿游戏的机会。
In 3 adult children, the game can be properly guided, let them play a more interesting game, to shift its attention, thereby decreasing the chance of playing a game.
4、有的孩子喜欢模仿搂抱动作,但并无恶意,家长可以对他说:“我知道,你抱她是想和她做朋友,不过好朋友手拉手一起玩就可以了,抱来抱去容易摔跤,亲来亲去也不太卫生,还是不要这样做为好。”

4, some children like to imitate these movements, but no harm, parents can be said to him: " I know, you hold that she wanted to make friends with her, but friends hand in hand together play can be, have to hold easily wrestling, kissing is not health, or do not like this do as well. "
 
5、一般孩子间的拥抱亲吻是情境性的偶发行为,但如果有的孩子经常故意模仿这类行为,父母就要严肃对待,一方面要检点自己的行为,有选择地让他看影视画刊;另一方面要对孩子进行必要的针对性的品德教育。
In 5, general child hugging and kissing is situated between the episodic behavior, but if some children often imitate this kind of behavior, parents should treat it seriously, one should behave themselves, have the choice to let him see film pictorial; on the other hand on the child is necessary for moral education.

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